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Guiding Principles to Live in Alignment

This is your year of transformation.

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As we welcome another year, there’s an undeniable energy in the air—a sense of renewal and possibility. For me, this year represents a continuation of intentional growth, rooted in clarity, connection, and conscious living.


During my recent journaling session, I reflected on the good, the bad, and the messy moments of the past year.


What emerged were guiding principles—“The C’s”—that shaped my journey and will continue to guide me in the year ahead. I invite you to explore these principles and see how they resonate with your personal and professional life.


1. Clarity

Clarity is about defining what you want, understanding your needs, and setting boundaries to protect your vision. To truly navigate life with intention, you must clear the fog: fear, obligation, and guilt. When we operate from these places, we lose sight of our purpose. This year, focus on clearing the fog so your goals remain clear and achievable.


Action Tip: Write down your goals, break them into actionable steps, and identify potential barriers before they arise. Clarity fuels confidence and direction.


2. Confidence

When you’re clear about your goals, confidence naturally follows. Confidence is built by trusting yourself to make decisions aligned with your values. As someone who lives with anxiety, I’ve learned that consistent, clear choices strengthen my ability to trust myself. Confidence is not about external validation but about knowing you can handle the outcomes of your decisions.


Action Tip: Avoid over-polling others for advice. Trust yourself to make decisions that align with your values and reflect your unique journey.


3. Curiosity

Curiosity opens the door to adventure, learning, and growth. This year, embrace opportunities to explore new places, experiences, and ideas. During a recent solo trip to Aruba, I rediscovered the joy of stepping out of my comfort zone and being open to the unknown.


Action Tip: Ask yourself, “What’s the best that can happen?” when faced with opportunities for growth and exploration.


4. Courage

Courage is essential for facing uncertainties and stepping into spaces where you may be the first or only one. For Black women, this often means navigating environments that challenge our sense of belonging. This year, embrace the courage to show up authentically and stand boldly in your power.


Action Tip: Practice embracing discomfort and use it as an opportunity to grow.


5. Closure

Closure isn’t always about getting answers from others; it’s about finding peace within yourself. Release habits, relationships, and situations that no longer serve you. Closure is about reclaiming your energy and moving forward with purpose.


Action Tip: Give yourself permission to let go of unresolved issues and trust that you’re making space for better opportunities.


6. Commitments

Commit to actions that align with your values. This doesn’t mean overloading your plate; instead, focus on prioritizing what truly matters. Last year, I trained for and ran my first marathon in Cape Town, South Africa. Keeping this commitment to myself was a testament to aligning my actions with my growth.


Action Tip: Say “yes” to commitments that align with your goals and values, and “no” to distractions.


7. Consistency

Consistency creates momentum and builds habits that lead to success. Whether it’s waking up at the same time daily or dedicating time to journaling and exercise, small consistent actions add up to significant change.


Action Tip: Identify one area in your life where consistency can make a difference and commit to a daily practice.


8. Connections

Building and maintaining meaningful relationships is essential for growth and happiness. This year, I’m committed to being a more intentional friend—responding promptly, sending thoughtful gestures, and nurturing my relationships.


Action Tip: Reach out to your support network and invest time in strengthening those bonds.


9. Capacity

Recognize and respect your limits. Avoid overloading yourself, and be mindful of when your capacity is stretched thin or empty. Learning to say “no” is just as powerful as saying “yes” when it aligns with your goals.


Action Tip: Take a moment to assess your capacity before committing to new tasks or responsibilities.


10. Conscious Living

Mindfulness and intentionality are key to living consciously. From limiting social media “doom scrolling” to prioritizing meaningful activities, conscious living allows you to stay present and aligned with your values.


Action Tip: Set boundaries around technology use and dedicate time to activities that nourish your mind and body.


11. Course Correcting

Making adjustments before reaching a breaking point is critical. Self-awareness allows you to recognize when something isn’t working and pivot accordingly. Regular check-ins with yourself can prevent burnout and keep you aligned with your goals.


Action Tip: Schedule time for self-reflection to identify areas where adjustments are needed.


12. Creation

Focus on what you need to do rather than overthinking how you will get it done. Creation is about taking action, even when circumstances aren’t ideal.


Action Tip: Limit distractions and take one small action each day toward your goals.


13. Claim Your Time

Your time and energy are valuable resources. Protect them by setting boundaries and minimizing distractions. Whether it’s reducing screen time or avoiding gossip, reclaiming your time allows you to focus on what truly matters.


Action Tip: Use time-blocking techniques to dedicate specific periods to focused work and self-care.


Closing Thoughts

These guiding principles are not just resolutions; they are a framework for living with intention and purpose. As you embrace clarity, confidence, courage, and all the C’s, remember that every small step contributes to a life well-lived. You deserve every blessing that this new year brings. Let’s make this a year of transformation, alignment and growth—together.


Here’s to an extraordinary year ahead!


Want to listen to Dr. Dominique Pritchett talk through these topics, listen to the Space for Sistas® Podcast at www.spaceforsistas.com/podcast.

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